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TOPIC 1
Networks of Messie self-help groups |

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A change of our behaviour will only be
possible on the condition that we get ourselves involved in communication
processes with the help of self-support groups : We consciously have to
reflect on different point of views in order to obtain appropriate and
adequate patterns of bevaviour.
Our goal is clearly defined:
Members of the group aim to solve their personal problems together, trying
to develop better coping strategies.
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At least six members meet regularly one evening per week
and discuss their daily and personal problems without any involvement of
therapeutic experts. Group sessions should last two to three hours at
most. The only equipment the group needs is no more than a neutral place
to meet once a week.
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Only if you abandon your single-track mindset, you will be able to change
your traits of personality and overcome your problems with the help of the
members of the support group.
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Sufficient opportunities to restore
your inner and outer balance must be provided, for instance by giving
encouragement or appreciation.
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You should be able to develop to the
full in order to accept your given natural abilities.
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Sense of action must be evident,
otherwise people tend to act according to any kind of sense.
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Concretely speaking, this means
that the group provides support in dealing with difficulties which arise
when trying to cope with certain problems.
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Self-support groups for Messies – what are they?
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Self –support
groups are groups of people varying in size from three to six or eight
to ten persons. |
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Members of the group are
confronted with similar situations in life and are affected by
comparable difficulties. |
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Their common aim
is to overcome their social, personal or illness-related burden.
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What do
self-support groups accomplish?
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They try to improve the
personal situation of respective group members and try to strengthen
and increase their social skills. |
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The opportunity of
exchange and mutual support can be seen as a big advantage, as it
helps to break down people`s isolation which is most typical for
people suffering from the “messie syndrome”.
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Setting up a
social network among the people affected is one of the most urgent
tasks. |

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